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Elyz78096yThat's a bit weird, yes. Also keep in mind people are rarely who they try to seem like they are online ๐ you'd probably have better success with finding someone interesting and talking to them. Also expecting anyone to be the perfect match for you is unrealistic. How could you ever match perfectly in every single aspect without being the same person? ๐
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TobiSGD2816yWhat you are actually searching for is a buddy that shares your hobbies, not the "perfect girl".
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@CoffeeNcode unfortunately in real life it does not even not work but it doesn’t even work to try to get to know someone..
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@CoffeeNcode maybe.. new country, job and mentality to me right now anyway (mainly because of this), hope I’ll make some good experiences here..
In Switzerland I can’t even ask a girl what time it is cause she thinks I just wanna ๐๐.. -
endor57516yFollowing the same pages != sharing the same interests or being an ideal partner, and if you're seriously looking for a partner based on facebook likes I have some bad news for you.
Yes, getting to know people can be hard, especially if you're not used to it, but you won't achieve much if you don't go out of your comfort zone and try. What's the worst that could happen, anyway? They say no, and you keep on looking for someone more interesting.
The more you enclose yourself in your shell, the worse you make it for yourself, and the more opportunities you miss because you were too busy deciding on how to rank people based on arbitrary numbers.
So go out, explore the world, write your own adventure, and you'll have plenty of stories to tell the next time you're talking to a cute girl ;) -
I think we're gonna need to see source code to answer your question and evaluate creepiness.
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